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	<title>Comments on: The Good Girl</title>
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	<description>You can't have everything. Where would you put it?</description>
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		<title>By: Jeri</title>
		<link>http://smugpuppies.com/2010/03/29/the-good-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-5207</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 02:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joni - thanks for reading! I was a really messed up teen, that was probably a large part of it. I&#039;m much better at friendship now. :)

You know, I&#039;ve been dancing around the idea of life coaching lately without realizing it. Your post definitely motivates me to explore that more fully. I took a look at your person&#039;s site - and there are a couple of others I know and admire as well.

And a weekend retreat - I&#039;m all for it! My Hawaii week was definitely that. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joni &#8211; thanks for reading! I was a really messed up teen, that was probably a large part of it. I&#8217;m much better at friendship now. <img src='http://smugpuppies.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>You know, I&#8217;ve been dancing around the idea of life coaching lately without realizing it. Your post definitely motivates me to explore that more fully. I took a look at your person&#8217;s site &#8211; and there are a couple of others I know and admire as well.</p>
<p>And a weekend retreat &#8211; I&#8217;m all for it! My Hawaii week was definitely that. <img src='http://smugpuppies.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Joni Zander</title>
		<link>http://smugpuppies.com/2010/03/29/the-good-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-5199</link>
		<dc:creator>Joni Zander</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 06:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, Jeri!  Just found your blog tonight.  Second article and I&#039;m just wowed!  I think we always had too much in common to really be great friends - too competitive.  And now I see that we have too much in common to NOT be great friends!

I&#039;ve been working with a life coach in Minnesota for over 6 years now and of all the women I&#039;ve known, I think you would truly love her program.  It is a combination of conference calls and individual phone coaching called GUTS (Giving Unbelievable aTtention to Self) and it has completely revolutionized my life!

If not that, I think we need to find a few more take charge, needing to shed our good girl skin women and take a weekend to work together!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, Jeri!  Just found your blog tonight.  Second article and I&#8217;m just wowed!  I think we always had too much in common to really be great friends &#8211; too competitive.  And now I see that we have too much in common to NOT be great friends!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been working with a life coach in Minnesota for over 6 years now and of all the women I&#8217;ve known, I think you would truly love her program.  It is a combination of conference calls and individual phone coaching called GUTS (Giving Unbelievable aTtention to Self) and it has completely revolutionized my life!</p>
<p>If not that, I think we need to find a few more take charge, needing to shed our good girl skin women and take a weekend to work together!</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 04:20:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All that I can add is that I am in total awe of you. You rock!

Big hugs and I am glad that I can say I can call you friend!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All that I can add is that I am in total awe of you. You rock!</p>
<p>Big hugs and I am glad that I can say I can call you friend!</p>
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		<title>By: WendyB_09</title>
		<link>http://smugpuppies.com/2010/03/29/the-good-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-5183</link>
		<dc:creator>WendyB_09</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 22:08:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yay Jeri!!! You go girl!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay Jeri!!! You go girl!!</p>
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		<title>By: mattw</title>
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		<dc:creator>mattw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 16:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you!</p>
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		<title>By: Janell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 16:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You kick ass :)  *hugs*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You kick ass <img src='http://smugpuppies.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   *hugs*</p>
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		<title>By: Janiece</title>
		<link>http://smugpuppies.com/2010/03/29/the-good-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-5177</link>
		<dc:creator>Janiece</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 13:53:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We&#039;re all still figuring it out, I suspect. Progress, not perfection, as the saying goes. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re all still figuring it out, I suspect. Progress, not perfection, as the saying goes. <img src='http://smugpuppies.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Stacey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stacey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 13:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeri,

You go girl!  I too had to work through the &#039;good girl&#039; image.  It is both daunting and exhilarating at the same time.  I&#039;m so glad to know you now, when both of us are coming into our own, shedding the square peg in a round hole syndrome.  Here&#039;s to many more years of us!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeri,</p>
<p>You go girl!  I too had to work through the &#8216;good girl&#8217; image.  It is both daunting and exhilarating at the same time.  I&#8217;m so glad to know you now, when both of us are coming into our own, shedding the square peg in a round hole syndrome.  Here&#8217;s to many more years of us!</p>
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		<title>By: Vince</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vince</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 12:47:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m glad you&#039;re exploring more of the person you are. I&#039;m sad you spent so much time suppressing that, though the decision to do what was best for your children when they were at risk is indicative of the strength and intelligence you have. Sadly, too many women can&#039;t (or won&#039;t) make those kinds of choices.

Sadly, the term &quot;good girl&quot; has become so much of what you describe - a woman who suppresses herself in service of others. Perhaps some day it will be defined as the person you have become - as a caring, supportive woman who not only cares for others, but also cares for herself physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.

Go Jeri!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re exploring more of the person you are. I&#8217;m sad you spent so much time suppressing that, though the decision to do what was best for your children when they were at risk is indicative of the strength and intelligence you have. Sadly, too many women can&#8217;t (or won&#8217;t) make those kinds of choices.</p>
<p>Sadly, the term &#8220;good girl&#8221; has become so much of what you describe &#8211; a woman who suppresses herself in service of others. Perhaps some day it will be defined as the person you have become &#8211; as a caring, supportive woman who not only cares for others, but also cares for herself physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.</p>
<p>Go Jeri!</p>
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		<title>By: Celeste</title>
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		<dc:creator>Celeste</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 06:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A toast to the past and the future!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A toast to the past and the future!</p>
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